It really will be nice not dealing w/ex as much in a few weeks. Today was a treat. I picked the kids up before she was home and she flipped out for not saying bye to them tonight. I didn’t think anything of it, I think she was there or asked to bring them over before on the switch days. Regardless, there is no reason to act the way she does and I think she was at om’s This morning and didn’t see them, that’s my hunch. I think I dealt w/her okay. She was yelling at me on the phone and I calmly told her it wasn’t a big deal (we live 5 min apart) and asked why she thought I would try to upset her on purpose, then she started crying and I said bye. She came over to see them real quick asked me to the side and said the same thing and I calmly gave her the same replies and told her this was no reason to treat me like this. She wanted a fight but quit after I wouldn’t bite. She also told me things are probably changing soon and asked about her dog. I told her I wanted to share him. I’m sure that means she’s moving in w/om. Smh. Again already, lol.
Kids are talking about him a lot too, they’ve been staying there sometimes. Not fun to hear, I had to tell them not to talk about it anymore but had to listen enough to know what’s going on. A lot of things clicked, including a couple more ways ex has been using me.
