Well this is where this is all going to get very interesting. I know she's going to ask what's up after a couple times of me being too bust to meet her. I'll just tell her what's up at that point...I'm just going to point blank tell her that once I realized we weren't ever moving beyond friendship, I wanted to date and continue fostering my life that doesn't include her. That's it. I'll just tell her once and for all that she's going to stand there, look me dead in the eyes and tell me she sees no chance of R with us. If she say she doesn't then that's that. Bye bye WAW. If she does a possibility of it I then ask for details.

But this is just stupid now...if we're not going to get back together then there's absolutely no point in being friends if that friendship ends once one of us involved with someone else. It's like trying to escape the inevitable. Plus I know, I know, I know she'll find a reason to contact me. As long as I am so close by now...she'll come back. Let's hope for her sake it's not too late for her, as Artista said, and I'm with some other woman who doesn't come with all this BS. She was supposed to straighten out her life in Florida the past 4 years. Doesn't seem to me she straightened anything out. But that's her problem. It stopped being mine when she walked 4 years ago to supposedly accomplish that goal. And the more I think about it...what is she happens to get involved with someone before me. I'll be DAMNED if I'm going to let her end our little pow-wow friendship. Yup...time for me to stay, far away...go dark/cold, and vanish for the most part.
Back to stalking and spying and pumping people for info about me for WAW. Her appetite for my life is relentless...even I had no idea she was privy to my daily life for 4 years...why did she care? I know why, and deep down she knows why. Until she acknowledges it...I'm doing like the Christopher Cross song and riding like the wind to be free again. She wants me and the privilege of my presence then she's got some heavy duty pursuing to do.

I will let you guys know when she contacts me again and my reply. More soon I'm sure...

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14