I have to be honest that I think you might be plan b right now. First I thought you blew it because you weren't direct and to the point on what you wanted. Now I think she only sees you as a back up plan.
My point always was that you were making to big of deal about making a move and scaring her away. I think any reasonable woman would expect you to make a move by now at some point.
The thing is now you are never going to know wether you blew it or not.
I think you need to move on an start dating again and definitely stop hanging out as friends.
