I have some counselling support visiting me every couple of days and they have arranged for me to see a top pro tomorrow for the first time.

Yes, time to get tough. I need to get legal stuff started. I don't know who is good and who isn't.

I only have 2 people I can talk with about this and neither live anywhere near to me so I do feel very isolated, so thanks everyone, I really do need all the support and advice I can get. It means a lot.