Thanks for the sympathy and advice Davide. Makes sense. It seems things are going very much according to plan for W right now. She is pushing forward with her plans for her new life and all the pieces are falling into place. For example, she has been actively telling everyone on her side that we are separating and seems quite proud of this. I have been much more cautious in what I’m saying and to who. The funeral situation is going to force my hand - everyone will be asking where she is. Also with the kids, W told me she is moving to having kids one weekend, me the next to ‘lessen the shock when we tell them and they are kind of used to it’. I’m dead against this sneaky approach but I feel powerless to stop it.
