No I have a few upcoming issues which have added more layers of complexity to my situation.
• My grandmother passed away. I have an upcoming funeral. I have not told the W when this is and she has not asked. I am assuming she will not be attending. Should I ask her if she is coming or would this be considered pursuit?
• W has a hospital procedure coming up which means she cannot drive for a week. She has told me she does not want me to be there. However she has asked for me to mind the children. I had some plans in the pipeline which now clash. Do I cancel so I can be there for the kids and W while she is recovering and cannot drive or is this pursuit and going against LRT?
