Originally Posted by HelenaJ
Sounds like you've chosen to speak to each of them individually about the situation as opposed to all together?


I did, it was more of a who was home at the time but I sat them down and finally told them what was actually going on. It was not easy but needed to be done.


Originally Posted by HelenaJ
Although it might cause a temporary setback in your mind, I think it's a good thing that W is gone.


Just to clarify, she was gone for the day, brought home pizza for everyone. Not that she left for good. Again still do not have any proof she has OM.


Originally Posted by HelenaJ
Good for you on being alcohol free. I go 30 days free now and then myself because alcohol plays such a large role in our friendships and social interactions and then I always like a glass of wine when I cook, to relax, when I'm listening to music, the list can go on and on if you let it. Sometimes you need to take a break and take time to honor your body.


I just found that even a few beers on he weekend affects my training, though cutting back would help. Trying to be better to my body.

Originally Posted by HelenaJ
Keep on truckin.


Do you know me IRL? Seriously do you? Its ok if you do just wondering?


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20