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[Jim1234]

Nicole, I haven't talked to the lawyer about child support; I figured I'd just go in when the settlement agreement was done, and discuss it all at once.

I am not really trying to understand her anymore. Maybe that's a first step toward detachment. Having been through so much difficulty together does make it difficult; I'm sure you can relate. I'm trying to move forward, though. "Fake it 'till you make it!"