Hi It Hurts, it sounds like the meeting on Saturday was pleasant but inconclusive. I can see how you prefer to scale back those meetings. Perhaps your ex-wife was waiting for you to do something that you didn't do, or perhaps you were waiting for her to do something that she didn't do, but given your history together maybe neither are willing to be the one to step forward. It seems you can proceed as planned and reduce the meetings but eventually I'm guessing your ex-wife will question why you don't want to hang out anymore. What will you tell her? I'm just curious because I really don't know what I'd do if I were in your shoes.