I am mid/late 30's man and my desire to date is zero.... basically non-existent.
pinn,
After my divorce I jumped right into dating. I thought it'd be interesting, and it was, but not in the way I'd expected.
I'm very busy with work, my sons and various projects. I have enough commitments to keep me busy for the next decade. Dating requires a lot of time, and it can become expensive as well. Now, I just focus on my sons, myself and my projects. Along the way, if I meet someone I like, then maybe I'll start dating. Otherwise, I'm just not interested in wasting my time and money. My sons and I are happy and healthy, so I don't need to torpedo my current bliss by entering into another relationship simply for the sake of being in a relationship.
