Actually guys, I've been thinking...I think I am actually going to dramatically reduce the time WAW and I are spending together. It's really getting old with me. So I think I'm taking a break from her. I'm going to politely decline hanging out with her going forward and just give up. She's had a few months now to get her crap together and my patience x Is fading. As I've always said, I want her...but I don't need her. There's other women I'd rather focus my time on now. So I probably won't be around these parts much going forward. I'm just at the end of my rope with her and if she is still too dense to see my awesomeness then I'm going to spend my time with women who do. This is just becoming redundant with her. If she thinks there's a better guy than me out there then so be it. One day she'll realize she had a rare second chance...and one thing is for sure... she'll regret it one day.
But I'm just done with this nonsense. I'm spinning my wheels and wasting my time. Many have said to treat this as I would any other relationship with a woman...and there's no woman on this planet that I would be this patient with...and I'm not going to be with WAW either. She's had plenty of time to get her head out of her butt. So that's that folks. If anything major happens with her I'll let you guys know. But for now, these little pointless get-togethers of hers are coming to a screeching halt for awhile. She's not going to find a guy as great as me and once again, as before 4 years ago, I'm letting her go try and fail again. Then she'll be back again at some point I'm sure because I am convinced she can't do without me, even if she herself can't see that yet. In the meantime...her little pow-wows with me are getting cut back dramatically.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14