Originally Posted by Gordie

I have listened and let her say as much as she is comfortable saying but haven’t pushed for more

I of course want her to open up more

But know from experience this has to be at her pace and that when I press for more direct communication she retreats

All advice welcome


be honest.
be true to yourself.
keep validating.
keep being your awesome self.

you're doing great!
xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver