Man if I was gonna drop that kind of dough I'd try to see MWD.
Anyways, how ya doin EZdozit? Sorry you are here.
Your W sounds crazy and all over the place. She wants this and she wants that. It sounds conflicting, but that's how humans are sometimes. When it's about what toppings on a hot dog, nobody cares, but when it's about marriage, things change bigly. Unfortunately, there's probably not much you can do about it. So try not to worry about it and do something better!
Your GAL sounds great. Your attitude towards your W sounds great too. Not letting her get all in your business is probably a good thing. If she wants to know so much, she should consider changing her situation.
I'm not the best DB'er but I'm OK. Some better advice will follow mine.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.