Thank you for the reply, I've been distancing myself more and following the detaching properly finally, but I didn't know if telling his to just take the rest would be working against DBing. I'm not packing anything for him or moving his boxes, he can do it all himself, but I did know if just saying, "Can you go ahead and just take it all now instead of this slow moving, would be ruining my DB efforts.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
