Question regarding H packing and leaving his things. He takes his things verrrrrry slowly, one box at a time maybe once a month if that. Would part of my 180 and detaching be telling him to go ahead and take the rest of his things or is that a severe no-no right now? He claims it kills him to see me sad every time he leaves the house so am I a fool in thinking that me detaching could include telling him to go ahead and take another box or else just smile and nod if he asks to take another box? He ASKS me if its okay to go upstairs to take his things, btw, he doesn't tell me or just do it.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
