It is totally acceptable and understandable to be angry
Here is what I did when I was exactly where you are
Cease all contact for you because it is hurting you
When she says why you do not need to respond
Let your actions speak louder than your words
Or you can simply restate that you choose not to be in a three way relationship
When she says she loves you
Say no you do not
Someone who loves me does not lie to me and cheat on me
Please stop saying that you love me
It makes a mockery of those words
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving