Detaching / Dbing... Can I get to Piecing?

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Thanks Sandi spot on and really needed this today. There have been times Ive been out and W has called 17 times months and months ago. I didnt answer. So this is not a new thing when she freaks out.

I think the respect was shattered and it is slowly growing. I have taken 2, 3, 4 steps forward, 1 or 2 steps back... when she asked to hang out have a drink and I pushed for it instead of saying maybe or not seeming so into it. I want to R but I know it will only work if she admits to her own weaknesses and works on herself. Yes I need to continue finding myself. GAL, leave her alone, take care of myself at a high level, consistency etc.

Really appreciate your time. If / when I disagree with you Im not saying Im right or your wrong just trying to understand.