Hope this is the last and final of my episode post divorce. I am done with my divorce. Its been almost a month since i posted and moving on gracefully meeting new people and finding a better more respectable life out there.
Just a small recap of what happened prior and below updates from ex -
Me and my ex recently divorced a 6 year sex starved marraige against my wishes.( problems were on both sides with eventually she shutting me off and claiming i may be gay or impotent and her super non trust issues) I was amicable until the end. Did not leave any what IFs. I could see an emotional ex on the D day however she still proceeded with the D. In fact she had tried to reach out to me with some emotional BS support a day earlier to D. I had already blocked all her contact through text and messaging and had not told her. She called my friend to check on me the day before divorce and adviced him to ensure i turn up to the court the final day and "set her free". She was kinda worried i may not show up and thought i was an emotional wreck. While in fact i was solid as a stone. Anyways we are divorced now.
Despite the fact that i repeatedly told her that she does not owe me anything financially and it was all settled out of no contest divorce, 10 days into post divorce I Got another ridiculous email from my ex - asking how i am.doing. says she has some dues she owes me and she would be grateful if i can take it back. And asked me to let her know. We had dissolved this marraige with me giving up all her assets for herself. Did not contest anything although i could have claimed 50% of what she had and alimony support for upto 2 years. She was ok with it. And i was crystal clear a f%$#ing million times to her and her ridiculous family that i dont want her money and kept my word. She was ok then.. why this drama now again? I did not bother to respond and just let it go.
Few days ago got another email from ex asking me to submit proof of loss of insurance coverage from my employer. I wonder why this was not asked the other day? This is the first thing usually anyone from HR or other company asks to switch over insurance carrier. Anyways I did not respond again. However, I already called the carrier and they will be mailing the document. I will in-turn mail that document out to her.
Since I did not respond to her latest insurance loss of coverage email, she was frustrated and sent me an email and asked me to stop being passive aggressive and judged that i may not be interested in sending the healthcare loss of coverage document and asked me to behave like mature adults keeping personal issues aside.. She also said she needs the tax filing document and she has the right to own it. I responded first saying i was neither being angry or inconsiderate and no passive aggressive like she claims. i had already requested the document and it takes 7 to 10 business days. If she wants she can expedite it by calling the carrier. And also attached the tax filing. I said that she had never asked for the tax doc. I also said I would be dispatching her marital requests to.her home soon so her parents would receive it. Since she brought legality into question, i asked her to come through her attorney if it makes her feel comfy and stop being judgemental towards me. She responded thanking for the doc and was expecting me to send a response to her email and being more considerate. And that she only requested the tax document because she wanted it for future purposes. I said I was not being inconsiderate just for not able to respond to her. I dont need see a reason for us to communicate in the future ever. We should act like 'mature adults' and behave what is required for us to be like legally divorced mature adults. I assume this was the last document she wanted. If there is anything else let me know what it is. So i can send you the required right away. If not, i assume We have nothing in between us now. I wish you happiness for your future and life. She responded saying she is not trying to invade my private space but I sound very harsh. And that We were once together and there was a pious relation we shared. At least I dont disrespect that. Anyways wished me good luck and said Take care I responded - Nothing is harsh that i mentioned. Everything is practical and I am not disrespecting anything or anyone here. It is a hard reality that mature adults should come in terms with. Past is done. That is what life is.
Moving on with my Life! Life is beautiful! Life is Short!
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
