Gordie 21 going with my gut

[Gordie]

So w has been speaking very directly about enjoying the one on one and family time of late

And very indirectly about the things I have wanted

The first tiny hints of regret over OMs

And the most subtle suggestion that we should sleep in the same bedroom again

I have listened and let her say as much as she is comfortable saying but haven’t pushed for more

I of course want her to open up more

But know from experience this has to be at her pace and that when I press for more direct communication she retreats

All advice welcome