And still struggling 2

[Jim1234]

It's been a while ,so I thought I'd post an update.

We had a mediation session this week, and agreed how we would split our assets. Like everything else we do, it was pretty amicable. The mediator will write it all up, and send us a settlement agreement. Assuming the mediator figures it all correctly, we just have to give it to our lawyers and have them file it with the court, and voila, we're done.

I can't say I'm upset. It was all very businesslike. That doesn't mean I'm happy about it. I still love her and want to R. But I keep reminding myself that she wasn't a very good wife, doesn't recognize that fact, isn't sorry about it, and has no desire to change that. It makes it a little easier.