So I’ve just found out that my W is moving into a rented house the day after she comes back from holiday next week.
She’s pressurising me to make a childcare agreement so she can have them spend some time at her new home.
We still have three weeks of the school Summer holiday left and I really think the kids should spend as much time in our family home as possible.
My wife has shown such a nasty side since BD that I’m not even sure that I want to DB to try and win her back, though I will continue to gAL etc.
Presumably I am at the LRT stage once she moves out?
What do you think about what will be best for our children? She hasn’t spoken to them about the fact she’s filed for divorce - she suggested we both have a talk to them together - on the day she is planning to move out!!
It’s been weeks since BD and I’m still so sad and anxious everyday, I wonder when I can expect to begin to feel even slightly better?


Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8
M:10 years
BD:06-18-2018