I'm up for that pint--it doesn't have any alcohol in it, does it? I already over indulged in the potent stuff last weekend while in Seattle (poor Triple J and Seattle).
Nobody can ask more from you, friend. You absolutely DO have the courage to face your own stuff while detaching from his. This is the only way to go, at least IMHO. Any decision that results from getting to this level of thinking is best for both of you.
I hope you have a marvelous time doing the things on your schedule this weekend.
Big hugs to you!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."