W only seems to message me now about our house renovation. Very matter of fact. She is on a mission. I tend to sit on the messages for a good while now and simply reply with yes, no, sure etc. I suppose this is detaching? Not read DR yet. I think I can do this. My dilemma I guess if that one of W many complaints and reasons has been that I didn’t respond to messages quick enough and when I did it was one word answers! Is this counter productive?
