Originally Posted by uk82
How does your W react when you mention legal stuff David? Are you still in the matrimonial home?

Yes, I'm still in the M home. W left and took the kids.

I know she took M cert when she left 2.5 months ago and gave it to her L. W said we could go to mediation and she said it in a very threatening way but she hasn't yet started it. A reason could be that I have a very good chance of having custody of the kids.

4 weeks ago we spent hours together at an event, W mentioned to me that she wanted D and "a clean break" but hadn't wanted to say yet as it would hurt me. She then took her stuff from the house. The kids then told me that W wanted the M home to be sold.

W is now away with kids and IL until next Sunday so I'm expecting D papers to be served any day as you get a week to reply to them and I think she will want to be away when it happens. If not, then I'm expecting papers to be served when W has finished hiding her money from a D (and according to W she's getting through it quickly).