Yes that is exactly right ovvrnbw. What would I say to my wife? They are jealous of you and want to bring you down to their misery. They do not have your best interests at heart, nor of the children. They think that D is nothing. One of them has no kids and been D twice at 36! That tells you how much she values the vows. The other had OM at work and decided to introduce the children to him before telling her H! The honeymoon period will soon pass for them. Oh dear what a sad state of affairs. What would my W say? Probably something like “they were brave, they were not happy, life is too short, they are happier now, they didn’t love their H, the kids will be fine, loads of people do this.” Grrrrrr.
