Originally Posted by uk82
Thanks Arsh. Kids away at the moment on holiday with IL. W made it quite clear she would not be home during this period. She is spending most of her time with her other D friends who all are thinking this is great and giving her 'advice' as well as introducing her to OM. This is one of the hardest parts I am finding - the thought that she is sitting there with these witches who are stirring a cauldron of hate to effectively tear apart my family. How can I counter this? Or do I need to let it run it's course?

My copy of DR cannot arrive quick enough.


You counter it by venting here? Think about what you would say to her about it...and what her response would be...

You can't do anything about the floozies coaching up your W. They're scum. You can't change them. They are perfect bc they don't judge your W, they validate everything she is doing. If they didn't, your W wouldn't be hanging around them.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.