Looking back over the last 3 months or so, I can recall a few instances where I seemed to peak the wife’s interest, even if it were momentarily. I think this was me GAL and detaching without realising it. My problem has been consistency. Examples include; I changed my hairstyle and wife complimented me on it. Then I wore a shirt to work instead of a t shirt and she noticed that too - asked if I was going out that night. Then I bought some new shirts and wife commented they were nice but not my ‘usual’ style. I just said I fancied a change. Then she said quite angrily that she had seen me looking at houses on my phone. I didn’t deny this. She was the one shouting she was selling the house! All of these things were before I found this forum but I have undone this good work by pursuing, clingy, needy and rising to the bait and getting into arguments.
