Hi Eryam, in some ways it seems you and your husband have built up so much resentment and got so off-track in the marriage that it's probably hard to remember what love feels like and how to offer it. This is a fragile time so every little action could make things better or worse. Perhaps when your husband saw you're going out with other men it pushed him over the edge and made him file for a divorce he didn't necessarily want. That's just speculation but it could be an example of how the way one of you perceive the others' actions, or how each other's actions are meant to affect the other, can make things worse at this time. Perhaps the DB guidelines for 180's and GAL could still help you to turn things around if you do them with the right intentions. I hope it's still not too late for you and your husband!
