W asks if I want to hug I said if you want long hug... BS tired of it.
IMHO, the WW should be told flat out....."NO!" Are you serious? Why should you hug her? And, why would you want a hug from her? I just don't understand it. Do you feel that desperate for a non-sexual touch from someone who has treated you so badly? You asked her if she wanted to give you a hug...…..
If you are truly tired of her b.s., then why couldn't you speak up and say, "Hell no, I don't want a hug!"
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
