As you get better at detachment, GAL, 180s, and being the best uk82 that you can be, she will start to question her decision. This will upset her and she will lash out, rebel, etc. Most LBSs see that as a bad sign, but those are actually positive because it shows she is having an internal struggle against her proclamation.
WOW thanks for posting hat Steve85, I think you are right. That is a really important piece of info. W was recently bad to me on the phone after a good day. I was feeling happy afterwards. I was thinking 'I don't have to put up with it anymore but I also thought that 'there must be some sort of internal dilemma going on'.
