It's hard to prove a negative. What do you read in DR that makes you think hanging out in bars with men to make your husband jealous is DBing?
And if that's the only thing you can think to do outside the house that isn't boring, you have a bigger problem than the state of your marriage. Focus on solving that one.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16