And you shouldn't be video chatting with her at lunch time either.......with your D, that is fine, but I sense that you used that as a way to check up on her. Maybe I am wrong but that's the sense I get.
Look I know some of this stuff is hard to avoid when you have a young child, but just try to keep your intentions pure. Do it for your D, not for yourself.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018