Just to clarify.....if your efforts to detach are violating the Golden Rule, then you are doing it wrong. Detachment and letting go is not being unkind. You are mixing up being kind with trying to solve and fix her problems.
When you go to the store are you unkind to the cashier? Of course not. But you don't look at the cashier and go, "she looks said. I wish I could make her life better." See the difference? Treat her kindly and with respect. But don't think you have to solve her problems. Or fix her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
