Detaching / Dbing... Can I get to Piecing?

[Did]

FaceTimed W instead of answering her text. So she could talk to and see D3. She was laying in bed at 11. Looked pretty sad. I want to ask her how she’s doing. The urge to want to help her have a better life is still there. At least I am posting bere instead of texting her right? Even if it feels right and helpful being kind to her does not help me reach my goals... just have to let her be sad I suppose.

She usually does not give second chances and has always held on to anger and grudges which she learned from her mom. . She also told me I was a good dad which she used to tell me was the most important and attractive thing to her. I think this is why she is confused. She has these childhood learned behaviors of holding a grudge and feels I hurt her so much while we were together. Then she sees this really good attractive man that loves D3 and she can mot believe it or trust it.

A year ago I would have talked to her about this.

Just be consistent DB and try to be patient.