Sandi2 and anyone else with experience, i could really use your help.
I attended a mc the other day with my w. In the session i learned that my w recently told her parents that we are headed for d and also admitted that she cheated. It seemed to me that she said she made a mistake, that it was nothing serious but thay she still wanted a d because she was unhappy. I met with parents last night and i was so happy that they still wanted to have a good relationship with me and that nothinh has changed on their end. I love my inlaws, i cannot begin to tell you how much they mean to me. Their desire is for us to work things out amicably for the benefit of our kids....which i want. However there is a LOT of work to do to get there.
I feel like maybe i shouldnt do anymore mc because my w is still in an active afffair with someone she works with? Now from my w perspective is that we are trying to move forward to d amicably. But how can i be amicable with someone that is torturing me everyday she goes to work? I feel like this mc is just giving her cover to say she tried to do everything she could and thay its my fault? Currently we are at a standstilll because neither of us wants to leave house. Keep in mind she wanted nothing to do with house until the kids told her they are not moving! And now she cant have people perceive that she would move on without her kids.
