one thing I noticed is that you said, more than once, that you don't want free nights every night. It sounded pursuit-ish to me. Like you really wanted him to know that you weren't going to be out every time, like you'd be available.
When you told him he lost weight bc of all the stress, it seemed like you were trying to fix him. That would indicate a problem. Your H knows he has one, but is in denial. Your method of addressing this came off like using a sledgehammer to kill a fly.
I wouldn't entertain the "nest" thing. It sounds really weird. If your H can't take you being around, he should leave.
Not to sound rude, but I am curious why you are meeting up with men for platonic purposes while you are very clearly hurt. None of these men are interested in being your friend, but you know that already.
You also seem to like the attention your H gives you about meeting these other men.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
