So now that the W is really pushing for D. I'm wondering about a something.

She planned a get together at my sisters cabin for her side of the family. She has invited her parents (where she lives) and all of her brothers and sisters families for Aug 16-18.

I'm wondering if I should tell her we cant do this now.

She is dead set on getting this D. Do I cancel the cabin reunion of do we run with it and I try to show her the best version of me as a family man and father?

Let me know your thoughts

ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15