He told me he's still losing weight even though he's not trying to
"Yes, I can understand how that would be concerning."
Validate those kind of comments, do not try to "fix" it sitch or use it to try and get him to see what he is doing. Your stress comment was pursuit and pressure and that is what he felt. And why he reacted the way he did.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
