There is so much excellent perspective here..... I missed Zues's and Dawn's post somewhere in the mix, and you guys pretty much spelled out how I feel about HC. Really though, no love lost, I don't think he is a bad guy, I just wish he didn't throw the ball back at me. It was a little self-important too where he thought I thought "He" was ending it, where as "I" was ending it. So, we never had our phone call. He texted me at 11pm that he was getting back from the city late and his phone was about to die, and he was sorry, and he would call me tonight. I almost wish he wouldn't, there is nothing to even discuss. He just wants booty, I do not, and it's over. Done. Have a good life. I will give him the tickets that I purchased to the event for next Thursday. Not exactly something a woman goes to without a date. So it's all his.
I just really want to emphasize: sex changed nothing for me. I had zero expectations from sex making it anymore than what it is. I will have you know, he was not crystal clear up front. But his actions began to show me his intentions, I pointed them out, decided they won't work and it's going to be over.
As for Band Guy. He is definitely your story of a LBS with a WAW. He's classic. It's sad. And coconut said I think he got a bit of the nice guy thing going on....... A lot of it I think has to do with his upbringing. He comes from a tight knit family with parents who have been married forever. He had the most ideal childhood...... He lived at home until he got married. This is kind of his first real time being married. I am not worried about the manly man thing. I could tell he would do anything to make something he wants work..... Oh, and what he did with this girlfriend is indeed back off and give her space and he never really heard from her again, so I guess that's where his limbo feeling came in.
So, the luckiest woman on earth picks up the title to the car she just bought out the lease on and gets in a car accident that day! That woman would be me. Going home from work, traffic on the highway, left lane stops short, the girl behind me hits me. Her first car accident, my first in a very long time. She must have been 19-20. We pull over. My bumper is cracked, her hood a bit damaged. Both of us are fine. Hot state trooper comes. Ring on his finger. Ugh. We did chat personally a little...... Anyways, I felt bad for the girl, there wasn't much she could do. I said I would get an estimate and if she wants to pay privately, she can. So that was my fun yesterday. I told Bandguy about it and genuinely seemed concerned. He's away on a roller coaster road trip with his friends. Still keeps contact. Says good morning, good night, that stuff. It's kind of nice.
Last night was me and D10's last night together before her cruise. We went out to dinner, did some shopping, and exH dropped off the dog. We hugged for like 20 min when I dropped her off at camp. 8 days without my baby!!!! I have no plans for the weekend either...... with other people that is. It's funny how I could have all the plans in the world when I have her, and none when I am free. I see myself doing a lot of purging and exercising this weekend.
I should be out of attorney review today. I drove by the house last night. It's waiting for us! I found a bathroom remodel online that I love that suits my size and needs perfectly. Still won't believe until I get the keys though!
