equalizer, I tend to do the exact same thing. I want to have a decent conversation and it always turns into me asking to many questions when I shouldn't even care. She then gets quiet and if Im in person she won't even look at me. I keep re-reading what Sandi told me about a WW. She is not the girl I married and she is not to be trusted. She is a different creature all together. And then the other stuff. You can not reason with her no matter what. My W is starting the paper work and is on a fast track to D. Keep up the good work. You've been dealing with it for a long time. I still think she is in a comfort zone with you. Where she comes and goes and doesn't have respect for your feelings. WW don't care what you think. I keep saying this but the woman I married is gone. She left 3 months ago at the flip of a switch. So of course I still think I can reason with her after 19 years and NOPE. I get shut down immediately. You hang in there and be smart. Plan your next move but don't dwell on it. Get out with your boy and find some fun. Your the solid parent and he knows it. There might be someone waiting for you out there that will love and treat you both very very good. Time to let go. If God really wants you 2 together it will happen. If not, then you will be fine. I ve read your posts and know you have patience and strength. You W is like my W. They are like a 25 amp draw of our energy and ambition. They consume our minds with negative thoughts and hopelessness that we won't let go of. I am new here and really want to bust this D thats coming my way. But I have to follow the rules and let go and get on with my life. If she comes around then great. If not then I am already moving on. I don't want to live my life like this for very long. I don't think you do either. Good luck this weekend and be strong!!!!
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15
