I blew it by not keeping quiet tonight. My W basically has gotten to the point where she leaves every evening and comes home late even when shes not out all night. She'll stroll in at 11/12 on her early nights. Shes basically started splitting time between houses, living a double life. I was initially going to do some boundary setting and it spiraled into more talking about where she is going every night than boundary setting. Obviously it didnt end well. Im just completely disgusted by what she does.

Its funny because during the talk she pulled the kind of blank stare and not saying anything the entire time. Straight out of the playbook.

Ill do better.

Last edited by equalzr; 08/03/18 02:07 AM.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof