I don't think I'll ever quite understand my ex, except that he just wasn't capable of being satisfied with many things in his life, and I was just one. I don't take it personally any more.
This comforted me so much when I read it, Ellie. Yes, it isn't personal at all. So hard to remember that when they are heaping all the blame for the failure of the relationship on us. Many many thanks for this!
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
