Hi Irish just to echo everyone's else , your on your own path and you are a rock for your daughters. I can't imagine the pain , anger, sadness , etc they must go through and all you can do is to be there for them. emotionally. Your Ds are coping with a incredibly tough situation , your strength is a shining light for them. The latest from EXW is just more of the same and a feeble attempt to make her ' matter'. She is attempting to draw the focus back on her because in her world she is the victim. I may sound hard but but i believe WASs come to the realisation that they are not the centre of the universe and people who they left behind have moved forward and that is notnwhatbthey want..
Enjoy yours Ds, your own life and your future, we only get one go at this life so live it the way that is best for you and yours.