Im starting to believe she gets a rush out of disrespecting me, sneaking around with OM, and leaving trinkets that I believe are from OM but dont have proof, right out in the open in front of me.
She may not be intending to leave them out in the open. The affair fog can affect people this way.
My adult D discovered my activities online, b/c I had left for work without shutting down the computer, and my conversations with OM was left on the computer monitor for anyone to discover. How stupid is that? And I thought I was being so careful.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
