Sooner or later I will decide that I will no longer live like this. Actually I have decided that I will not live this way indefinitely. I just haven't put any timeframe onto it. I trust I will know when I am there. No hurry. But ultimately it will come if things continue as is.
The letter is for me and has no intended objective for W except to let her know I am at a turning point. Michelle recommends that it one of her books. Raise the status level to maximum defcon level before walking away. I think that is fair.
Thanks for your interest
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
