You are going to hate me for this one, you are already offended by most of what I say but really,
If we could erase who's fault this whole divorce is in this situation, the ruling was not fair. It is a very uncommon ruling. Daycare costs and child support costs are exclusive of each other. Technically if you make more money than her, you should be paying a higher percentage of childcare costs (I did).
I've been divorced a long time and have known lots of divorced people with kids, and this is not the way it usually works.
