Steve, or anyone else (specifically anyone who has completed a D) your opinion on?
1.) how the Judge will take this, considering how its worded?
2.) do you think an adjustment will be made?
3.) I had already submitted A revised financial affidavit in June. Do you think they'll want another one?
4.) This clearly garnered a reaction from her. The handwriting is really bad, like TOTALLY unlike her. Her usual writing is clean and almost arty/decorative.
Lastly. call me crazy. I know this is going to sound loony, but if you all recall I had a really tough day on Monday. I looked, and that is the day the letter to me was post marked. She was writing her response the same time I was having a serious emotional episode. I cant help but feel like Her and I share an emotional connection. I know thats crazy to think, but it certainly would explain a lot of my random / unexplained emotional down spirals. Im trying not to take too much stock in this idea, but its a bit too coincidental to disregard out of hand.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
My L already said "This judge sees through her, and seems to be leaning your way"
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2) Hard to say. I tend to agree that he may take this as her saying his judgment was wrong and that could be bad for her.
It all came off as pretty demanding and entitled to me.
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3) Very well could. They always try to get the latest information. You could have received a promotion or raise or a new job since the last one.
If they ask i will provide. Itll be exactly the same as the one submitted in June.
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4) Mind reading. Maybe she hurt her hand somehow, etc.
Mind reading, perhaps. I dont think so, but ill give you the benefit of doubt here. Steve, it looks like she wrote this while drunk. Like.....its....Bad. Mind reading aside, it looks grossly unprofessional and rushed.
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On your last point, someone else will have to help since I have zero belief in the supernatural.
Im not inclined to believe this as well, but i cannot think of any other explanation. Its exactly like the weekend before i got my temporary divorce decree, which she got 3 days earlier than me, as i was away that weekend.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
You are going to hate me for this one, you are already offended by most of what I say but really,
If we could erase who's fault this whole divorce is in this situation, the ruling was not fair. It is a very uncommon ruling. Daycare costs and child support costs are exclusive of each other. Technically if you make more money than her, you should be paying a higher percentage of childcare costs (I did).
I've been divorced a long time and have known lots of divorced people with kids, and this is not the way it usually works.
States and Judges vary i guess Ginger. Also my state bases Child Support off of Debt to Income Ratio, as well as the allocation of household expenses prior to seperation, not just who makes more Gross Pay.
I have more bills, i Pay rent and she doesnt, plus i was paying approximately 80% of all expenses while we shared a marital home.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
However i have had several convo's here about what does and doesnt offend me.
I would like to please keep the topic focused on this new document, if and how i should respond or object to it through the court, and my "Motion to retroactively apply Monies"
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
