I have two questions which (while I wait for my copy of DR) I would very much like some advice on because they are happening right now and I do not want to make matters even worse by reacting in the wrong way:

• When W talks of selling the house etc etc, do I just go along with it or do I put up resistance?
• She is almost certainly taking steps to file some kind of papers - not D but Separation. To do this she requires our marriage cert. I have taken this away. I know she was looking for it yesterday. Was this a mistake and if she confronts me do I deny all knowledge?

It's moving so fast. So hard.