OK here goes first post... pt 2

[MrsJLS]

DavidUK- you have done extremely well, and stood up for yourself and your family and you are a wonderful father and I am sure you were a brilliant husband to your W. It must be very emotional at this time as you have no idea what is going to happen and you worry a lot about the future. But I would say the same thing as Benito-that to keep worrying and thinking about what your W is going to do is completely pointless and wasted energy. You have repeated many times in this forum that you don't trust your W or ILs. You may or may not be served D papers, but in reality none of us have any idea what will or will not happen tomorrow, it is totally out of our control. I know what I am talking about because I lost my younger brother 7 years ago in an accident... nobody saw that coming. We get that you don't trust your W. You keep repeating that by writing on this forum and I am sure you say that to yourself many times over and over.. cheeseless tunnels. It doesn't do anything. Focus on yourself and ask yourself- what could be the best thing you could today for DavidUK to make him feel good about his life right now regardless of what other people do or don't do. Personally, I made a special list for myself in my notebook to remind myself of about 20 fun things I love to do- to me it is to have a facial, calling a friend, taking a bath, taking the dog for a walk, play the piano, read this forum, work on my business, read inspirational quotes, put a make up on, buy a new dress etc. I realise that for men this list would look entirely different though