Gordie I have been thinking of you. My sitch escalated and my H is now saying he will be leaving. I was thinking about how things played out for you and wondering if that would ever happen to me. I am in the free fall now of not knowing and assuming the worst is yet to come.

I loved reading your update. I was so happy she held your hand. And you are so patient and kind and clear-headed. It really inspires me.

If you have the chance, stop by my thread to see my H's last letter. I was wondering if you agreed with my decision to not respond and then how I did say I was hurt and didn't want to talk. I was wondering how you translate your listening skills to letters -- and in this case, letter followed by a phone call when my H acted like the letter didn't happen.

Last edited by Gerda; 08/02/18 03:33 AM.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.